"He said, "I'm listening to the music." And then, "Fantastic....wow!""
The words of a dying man repeated at his memorial service. Amanda had known Scott for over 17 years, the father of her childhood best friend. He had died of cancer, just short of being 50-years-old. The battle with cancer had taken a year and while some may see that battle as lost, Amanda knew God had won. She was thankful to God for His love for Scott, His child. Scott was at peace now. But tears still threatened to fall as she thought of the family left behind. Four children, two married and two still teenagers, the youngest almost 16. And a wonderful wife, Joyce, one of the sweetest women Amanda knew.
Old pictures of Scott and his family in the slideshow brought laughter and tears to those attending. Joyce had chosen the songs that were playing on KLOVE as Scott was dying to accompany the photos. "Home" by Daughtry and "You Raise Me Up" by Selah. The whole service spoke of Scott's quiet and strong faith, his full joy in both living and dying. Memories of family get-togethers filled Amanda's mind as she thought of how much his two daughters and two sons would miss him. And how much Joyce would miss him.
I've been married for only two months and can't imagine loosing Brandon. But to lose a husband of two decades? I know I have no idea of what that's like. Amanda's heart hurt. Words wouldn't heal this family's pain and she didn't have any to give them.
Amanda watched as Joyce received hug after hug when the service was finished. At the moment, Joyce's joy for Scott being with Jesus was shining through the rest of the emotions that came with the day. Could I be so strong if this happened to me? Lord, please continue to give her Your strength and peace. No one else will be able to hold her up, but You can. Amanda's prayers for them followed the same thoughts all day.
After the service, life continued. For many who came their lives would be the same as before, with work, family, fun and worship. For others, a piece is now missing. Praise God that one day all will be restored for His children, in His name! But until then, remember those in your own life who are missing pieces. The Church is here to love, encourage and uplift them. The Body of Christ. This is why God gave us each other.
